Two months ago I was at an all time low emotionally. Having finally suffered the ultimate betrayal in my 5 year relationship I found myself defeated, alone, feeling sorry for myself and humiliated. There was no where else to go but up. That morning my father found me crying and alone and at the end of a rope. He said to me that morning "This will all pass, it wasn't the right situation for you. Trust me (he's been married 3 times) when you find it, it'll come unexpectedly and from out of nowhere, and it will suddenly all make sense why all the others never worked." Truer words were never spoken, as I think I'm in the midst of it this very moment.